Jim Kling ([info]jkling) wrote,
@ 2007-12-11 12:54:00
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In memory of Anita
I've been slow to post because I have been a little unsure what to say.

I've known Anita since I met Jack ten or so years ago. For years, I wondered what she thought of me. She always seemed a bit distant towards me, and for awhile I wondered if she disliked me. I eventually understood that it was nothing of the sort -- probably just the chemistry between us. I came to a deep affection and admiration for her, especially her courage in the face of illness.

Comments by [info]mcjulie and [info]mareklamo really resonated with me:

[info]mcjulie said: "I think maybe the person who received the most from her grace is Riley. As a child, he needed her more than anyone else could, and she seemed to give him exactly what he needed -- a steady presence, gentle discipline, and palpable love. It was a joy to watch them together."

[info]mareklamo said: "It's impossible for me to think of Anita without also thinking of your grandson R. The Jesuits say "Give me a child until he is seven and I will give you the man." R is only five, but I think it is safe to say that Anita's positive influence on him will be lifelong."

I see Riley as one of Anita's most important legacies, and having provided some care for Riley in the past couple of years, I feel very vested in that.

So, I will cajole and pester and support Jack, and [info]mareklamo and I will provide more Riley care as needed. It will be our way of honoring Anita's memory.



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